{"id":38,"date":"2016-01-14T12:50:41","date_gmt":"2016-01-14T12:50:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aberexchanges.wordpress.com\/?p=38"},"modified":"2020-03-04T10:05:19","modified_gmt":"2020-03-04T10:05:19","slug":"saying-goodbye-for-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/2016\/01\/14\/saying-goodbye-for-now\/","title":{"rendered":"Saying Goodbye (For now)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Name: Sophie Beckett<\/p>\n<p>Department: International Politics<\/p>\n<p>Host Institution: Bilkent University<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s under week until I will be flying out for my semester abroad at Bilkent University in Ankara, Turkey. I\u2019ve finished exams and my packing as well, which has been a useful procrastination tool! I\u2019m starting this blog whilst still in rainy Wales because preparing to go is a significant part of the experience.<\/p>\n<p>This weekend I\u2019ve been saying goodbye to my amazing group of friends. Particularly sad has been bidding farewell to my third year friends, who will have graduated when I return. In true Aber fashion I threw a goodbye pre drinks house party, though I think it fell short of expectations for some of my more party orientated friends as I\u2019m not incredibly well versed in hosting parties, nor do I know many drinking games beyond Showdance\u2019s \u201cChicken Goggles\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve also had to bid a temporary goodbye to my wardrobe. I don\u2019t think of myself as having a particularly large wardrobe, but alas, the DofE style pack that I\u2019m taking would only just fit my t-shirt collection. A problem whist packing is the climate in Ankara. Currently it is hovering around 5 degrees Celsius. When I return to Britain in May it will have climbed to 35 degrees! I\u2019m having to console myself over the short-term loss of my 15 Harry Potter t-shirts with the promise of spending a significant portion of my Erasmus grant on clothing!<\/p>\n<p>Sorting out exchange has been drawn out. After we had applied Bilkent changed their application process, but in the change our applications became invalid, which was only discovered by both parties when our log in details didn\u2019t arrive in November. Cue panicking and a very long Christmas break sorting out the issues caused by this. Everything is finally sorted, and all that\u2019s left is to find out our room assignments on Thursday.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A lot of people ask me if I\u2019m scared about going. My usual answer is: of course I am &#8211; I\u2019d be bonkers not to be! The thing about dreams is, if they don\u2019t scare you, then they aren\u2019t big enough.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I\u2019m going to be in a country where I don\u2019t speak the language, with a veritable war zone on its borders. That alone should be enough to scare anyone. But I\u2019ll also have all the normal challenges of moving to a new place like making friends and finding my way around. Ankara is a big place, and I\u2019m used to tiny Aber or Birmingham.<\/p>\n<p>But I\u2019m just relieved I\u2019m going at all. The placement looked touch and go for a while. The violence preceding the elections could have stopped it. Thankfully, everything seems to have calmed down (cross fingers), though I am keenly aware that the country borders Syria and I am prohibited by the Foreign Office from travelling to any of the districts along the border. At the end of the day, I chose Turkey precisely because I knew it would be a very different experience than anywhere else offered. I\u2019m an International Politics student, I study war every day, but this trip is the first time I am anywhere near one. I\u2019m going to take this as a learning experience, to see how differently Turkish People consider war when it\u2019s on their door step.<\/p>\n<p>So it\u2019s goodbye Aber! I\u2019ll probably pen another post next Sunday once I\u2019ve arrived. It will include the delights of grocery shopping, which makes me very happy as anyone who knows me will know my love for cooking and food in general.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sophie, one of our outgoing International Politics students going to Bilkent in Turkey talks about her feelings before departing the UK. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13066,"featured_media":196,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"quote","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[23,24,42,43,49,63,66,97,101,110,112,115],"class_list":["post-38","post","type-post","status-publish","format-quote","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-international-office-aberystwyth-university","tag-bilkent","tag-blog","tag-friends","tag-fun","tag-happy","tag-moments","tag-new-experiences","tag-student-abroad","tag-summer","tag-travelblog","tag-travels","tag-turkish-experience","post_format-quote"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/files\/2016\/07\/3485.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13066"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1260,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38\/revisions\/1260"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/196"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.aber.ac.uk\/aberexchanges\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}